Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors Understand the underlying causes: Explore possible reasons for challenging behaviors, such as developmental delays, sensory issues, or emotional regulation difficulties. Establish clear expectations: Set age-appropriate rules and boundaries to guide children's behavior. Provide positive reinforcement: Reward desired behaviors with praise, attention, or small rewards. Use effective discipline: Implement consequences for inappropriate behaviors, such as time-outs or loss of privileges. Foster open communication: Encourage children to express their feelings and perspectives to build understanding and trust. Seek professional help when needed: Consider consulting with a therapist or counselor if behaviors persist or become unmanageable.