Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers Build a strong bond: Spend quality time with your kids, listen to them, and show them you care. Set clear expectations: Establish rules and boundaries, and enforce them consistently. Be a role model: Show your kids what it means to be a responsible and caring adult. Encourage independence: Allow your kids to make their own decisions and learn from their mistakes. Support their interests: Get involved in your kids' activities and hobbies, and show them that you're interested in what they're passionate about. Communicate openly: Talk to your kids about their feelings, concerns, and goals. * Be there for them: Let your kids know that you're always there for them, no matter what.